"Glory is fleeting, but obscurity is forever.”
Hey I finally found something fun to talk about. :D THIS. As a quiet person, I liked this a lot, so I might as well talk about it.
#1 "Quiet People Are Looking For Your Help"
I'm a person who is very comfortable with just not saying anything. I'm a better listener than talker. I just like to listen and try to think about and analyze what someone's saying. It's just how i understand things better. It doesn't mean that I need your help socializing, and it doesn't mean that theres anything wrong with me. It just means that I have nothing to say for now.
#2 "Quiet People Lack Social Skills"
Quiet people are perfectly sociable. They just take it at a slower pace. Whereas talkative people may just blurt out the first thing that comes to mind, quiet people like to think things through before saying them. That said, sometimes its good to just say whatever comes to mind.
#3 "Quiet People Lack Confidence"
Just like in the article I'm gonna use the Kung Fu Master analogy. "Most people fit quiet people into the 'shy nerd' stereotype, where the quiet person is intimidated by other people, or is afraid of being laughed at, or undervalues him or herself. But as long as we're going to movie stereotypes, there's also the silent kung fu master, who doesn't need to says anything, even when insulted, because he knows damn well he's a kung fu master and can remove your spine whenever he wants." I really can't put it any better way than this. I'm not saying that being silent because you can absolutely wreck someone is a positive thing, I'm just saying that overconfident people can be just as silent as under-confident people. Although I do like the kung fu master analogy.
PART 2 COMING SOON
Hey I finally found something fun to talk about. :D THIS. As a quiet person, I liked this a lot, so I might as well talk about it.
#1 "Quiet People Are Looking For Your Help"
I'm a person who is very comfortable with just not saying anything. I'm a better listener than talker. I just like to listen and try to think about and analyze what someone's saying. It's just how i understand things better. It doesn't mean that I need your help socializing, and it doesn't mean that theres anything wrong with me. It just means that I have nothing to say for now.
#2 "Quiet People Lack Social Skills"
Quiet people are perfectly sociable. They just take it at a slower pace. Whereas talkative people may just blurt out the first thing that comes to mind, quiet people like to think things through before saying them. That said, sometimes its good to just say whatever comes to mind.
#3 "Quiet People Lack Confidence"
Just like in the article I'm gonna use the Kung Fu Master analogy. "Most people fit quiet people into the 'shy nerd' stereotype, where the quiet person is intimidated by other people, or is afraid of being laughed at, or undervalues him or herself. But as long as we're going to movie stereotypes, there's also the silent kung fu master, who doesn't need to says anything, even when insulted, because he knows damn well he's a kung fu master and can remove your spine whenever he wants." I really can't put it any better way than this. I'm not saying that being silent because you can absolutely wreck someone is a positive thing, I'm just saying that overconfident people can be just as silent as under-confident people. Although I do like the kung fu master analogy.
PART 2 COMING SOON
